It's official. You're really a guy in a woman's body, and you're checking out all those boobs because YOU LIKE THEM.

The only thing that's wrong with you is that you've bought into this idea that big breasts intrinsically mean anything at all. It's not the breast but the woman attached that is important.

You could get a set of implants, but that may change your attitude, but I think if you change your attitude first, then you'll find the rest falls into place (forgive how that sounds).

Remember, a) the only makeover worth having starts from the inside, and
I'm a man, so I don't know what it's like to be a woman, so take anything I say with a grain of salt.

stran...

I feel the same way about my own breasts. It's not that they're not large enough, because they probably are, its just that they're weird shaped I think. There's enough there, but bras don't fit right, even if they're the right size, because the shape of them is so different.

Hopefully having babies and nursing will change that a little. I know they won't be as "perky" as they are right now, if you can call them that at all, but maybe the shape will be a little more regular.

You're not a pervert, either. I think lots of women see something they don't really like about themselves and look at other women and say "oh...I wish I looked like HER!" I think it's normal, if not kind of goobery for us to feel like that.

This whole boob thing is baloney. For sure the voluable male will rattle on about it in bars yaddie yadda, its an ego thing. The other 95% quietly get on with life - in the same way message boards usually only contain complaints or argumentative dribble from the insecure, happy ones dont bother posting, they see no need - principle of the silent majority.

Yup I'm a man - but the popular myth says these are being flashed at me - nope - the overwhelming majority of men are more interested in her personality and brain, not the cup size.

Dont be a slave to male or female ego, just be yourself, thats all that matters in the long run.

Amen. I agree wholeheartedly.

And I hope you take my previous comment in the light it was meant.

Straniera,  I was an A until I had my kids and now I'm a B.  I have nipple envy.  Mine are brown and I always wanted pretty pink ones.  How is that for tmi?  So don't feel weird, I think we all have issues. 

It's hard not to be envious of others when you think that what you have is not good enough. It's sad to say that it's a normal feeling but it is. Sad only because we often find ourselves feeling inadequate because of what society deems as perfect. I'm a full C cup and I do like mine. But yeah, I would change them if I could too so don't feel bad Straniera, most women feel this way!

I forgot to mention that I had found some info the other day about the this very topic and was going to write about it. Maybe I'll see if I can find it and do that.

Both my mom and sis are more "booby" than I am. Instead, I am more endowed in the bum area.

I don't like large boobs, particularly man-made ones. The old adage 'more than a hand full is a waste' springs to mind. By the sound of it, straniera, your boobs are perfect.

Haha, invariably posts about boobs always end up with one male, then many, declaring that large breasts are unattractive or unnecessary.

I think it is natural (though not good) for we (us? we?) women to size ourselves up in comparison to others.

I am sure you are beautiful and your breasts look perfect on you.

(o)(o) <---- boobs Hehe.

OH, and if you have to ask if you're a pervert...you probably ARE!!

Hahahahaha.

What is big? For me anything larger than a C is just too much on my body. I had over flowing c's while prego and nursing. I hated it.

My advice? (Ok you didn't ask but here it is anyway.) Leave your boobs alone for another few years. If in five years you still want bigger ones...well, start saving! It is something you can change.

Yeah, yeah, you should be happy with your body...yadda yadda yadda...but if you aren't, and can do something about it, I'm all for it.

Until then....we'll just call you the boobie monitor...sounds so much better than pervert.

Thanks everyone! I was laughing to myself because the first few comments were from guys...were you hoping for pictures???

Thank you to all for the encouragement



I've been thinking the same thing myself lately...he he!



of course



I'm trying but these shackles are just so dang tight!



I will be waiting anxiously to hear it.



Thank you...far all you know I am a malnourished skin and bones...but thanks anyway.



ROFLMAO!! (is that how you write it??)



If Trapper John were here he would say I couldn't be a pervert because he didn't see me at the last meeting...





Honestly I just want to be able to fill out a B cup...I'm not sure whether I'm willing to do surgery for it or not. We'll see after I have some babies.

In reality I have a wonderful husband who loves me just the way I am. He never complains and I never catch him eying other chests longingly (I guess that's my job...) So I don't really know why I am still so obsessed with this! I wish I could say I was strong enough to overcome social stigmas...all I can say is I'm working on it. Maybe sometime in my lifetime small boobs will come back into style then everyone will want to look like me!!

if this is causing you real worries then I don't see any reason why you shouldn't try looking into doing something about your chest. I've been hearing a lot of good things lately about herbal remedies to this age old problem. You should take a look at procurvepills.net , i hear good things