OR I hate cookie cutters
Published on July 30, 2007 By straniera In Religion
So far I have been really impressed with the way most people on here are able to respectfully disagree. I appreciate that. One of the reasons I joined was my concern that perhaps Christians were cast too often as closed minded. I am not a super thinker (I have my husband for that), but I have come a long way in my Christianity and am sickened by the way “we” are so misrepresented in the media. (I say we because you really can’t lump all Christians together, even those from the same denomination, but we’ll talk about that later) Unfortunately it is usually the extremists who get noticed mainly because they make the most noise. That being said, I really hope that I can play the part of an open minded Christian who doesn’t really fit the stereotypes you have in mind. It is a big task to take on, and I’m scared to death, but I have to try.

Back when I had way too much time on my hands I subscribed to several email newsletters relating to different facets of my Christianity. I don’t have time to read each and every article anymore, but every once in awhile there is one that is really worth reading.

Today I was impressed with a particular blog (linked below) that pointed out the fallacy in making big blanket statements about what a Christian can and can not believe. In my experience, people aren’t as cookie cutter as they may seem on Sunday morning. My husband and I like to joke about the closet drinkers and dancers in our particular denomination because it has a tradition of being anti any kind of alcoholic drink and anti dancing. Even though you might still find this tradition in the churches, you won’t find it in everybody’s every day life!

The specific topic the writer opens with is one I will have to research further, but I think her point is well made. Even among Christians, no ESPECIALLY among Christians we must be careful about generalizing and forcing our beliefs on one another.

Comments
on Jul 30, 2007
Some good thoughts here.

One of the most important things we must remember is that Christ set us free. Another thing to remember is everything we do is to bring glory to Christ. Paul said whatever we do, eat, drink or sleep remember to bring glory to him who set us free.

I was thinking about the immigration question about hiding someone illegally. I'm not so sure breaking civil laws is something he'd want us to do.....but doing so doesn't make or break our Christian faith. The only time I believe we should break a law is if it goes against God's law. An example of this would be the midwives who would not kill the male babies in Moses' day.

He wants us to keep the laws of the land. By doing so, he'll work it out for us just like he did for Moses. Remember if we have faith enough to move mountains they'll move. How many obstacles has he removed (looking back) in your own life as you sought to please him.

One thing that is sorely lacking among the Chrisitans is grace giving. We must give each other room and remember that we may all be Christians but we may be in different areas of growth. I remember (and cringe) at some of the things I did and believe as a Christian when I was a baby Christian. Now as I know him better and understand more of his will for my life, I know that bringing him glory is what I'm here for.

I also hate cookie cutter Christians. We were never meant to be like that.
on Jul 30, 2007
LOL, KFC.
on Jul 30, 2007
Nice thoughts and I agree with you.

I really hope that I can play the part of an open minded Christian who doesn’t really fit the stereotypes you have in mind. It is a big task to take on, and I’m scared to death, but I have to try.


I am sure you can do this. I think given some of observations you've already made, you're well on your way to achieving this. I don't consider myself a Christian. For the want of a better expression, I am an agnostic with leanings towards Eastern philosophies, particularly Buddhism. But in my time here, I've been able to have intelligent, worthy discussions with Mormons, Catholics, Buddhists, Anglicans, Agnostics, Presbyterians, Athiests and others. I am sure if you don't force you beliefs on everyong or turn every thread into a chance to preach the Gospels, you'll do fine.
on Jul 30, 2007
I also hate cookie cutter Christians.


You hate cookie cutter Christians? That's not very Christian of you.


on Jul 30, 2007
You hate cookie cutter Christians? That's not very Christian of you.


hahahah Mason...you've got me there.....it's the principle....not the person....  

on Jul 30, 2007
arg, lw on Hubby's account..brb.
on Jul 31, 2007
One thing that is sorely lacking among the Chrisitans is grace giving. We must give each other room and remember that we may all be Christians but we may be in different areas of growth. I remember (and cringe) at some of the things I did and believe as a Christian when I was a baby Christian. Now as I know him better and understand more of his will for my life, I know that bringing him glory is what I'm here for.


Grace-giving, tolerance, patience and all that I think are among the hardest tings for a Christian to practice. I don't know why since those were some of the top things Christ taught, but somewhere along the way we got REALLY messed up. I have realized, both in myself and others, that this usually stems from lack of confidence in ourselves and lack of understanding what we truly believe. We have to continually watch ourselves to make sure we are acting in the right way.

Have to go hang out with my in-laws now! More later...
on Jul 31, 2007
"We have to continually watch ourselves to make sure we are acting in the right way"

The right way? You clearly have Faith in your God, a marvellous thing.

Just also have Faith in yourself, and do what your heart tells you is right - its rarely wrong in my view
on Jul 31, 2007
We have to continually watch ourselves to make sure we are acting in the right way.


Yes, what you say here reminds me of Paul saying we need to examine ourselves regularly.

Just also have Faith in yourself, and do what your heart tells you is right - its rarely wrong in my view


But our heart can lead us astray. Can we trust our emotions?
Our faith should not be in ourselves but in the God who gave us our hearts.

Grace-giving, tolerance, patience and all that I think are among the hardest tings for a Christian to practice


The Christian walk is not an easy one. It's like swimming upstream sometimes. I think most of the time we try too much to rely on ourselves. It's much easier when we let Jesus "take the wheel" isn't it?

Have to go hang out with my in-laws now! More later...


believe it or not....I really miss my in-laws who passed away in the last few years. In many ways I was closer to them than my own parents. Have fun!




on Aug 01, 2007
Hello Straniera,

Welcome aboard. At 7 months, I'm relatively new at JU too. I'd say from reading the various comments that you've gotten off to a very promising start.

Soon enough, you'll find in the religion section, that there are differing opinions galore, with some more opinionated than others. (I'm speaking of myself) And btw, concerning KFC, I've found that she's an exceptionally 'normal' Christian...showing true love and zeal for our Lord Jesus Christ and the Good Book.